It’s always stressful getting to know someone new.
- Whenever I spend a lot of time with somebody new, I realize there are a lot of things to figure out.
One of the major priorities of a relationship is sharing compatibility. Do we enjoy the same activities? Have the same goals? I have been seeing a guy named Gary & things have been going pretty good. We get along great, have a quite a bit of fun together & there is strong chemistry. For the most part, we are super compatible. Last weekend, however, i decided to stay over at Gary’s place because it got so late in the evening. I was too tired to drive home. I was getting situated in bed when he told me that he prefers to only sleep with a light sheet. no. I just hate being too warm while I sleep. I like to run the air conditioner and enjoy a steady supply of cold air. With a cooling system running, the air gets circulated and filtered. The noise of the air conditioner helps me to fall asleep and drowns out noises that would otherwise disturb me. I sleep better under heavy blankets, so I set the thermostat to keep the room a bit chilly. I run the Air Conditioning for the majority of the year. I was not looking forward to being overheated & sweating under a single sheet. I have a problem falling asleep if the room is not below a certain temperature. In the summer, air conditioning is absolutely necessary for me. The nights often become so hot & humid that the air feels clammy. I was now facing the extra heat of having another body in the bed. We needed to come to a compromise for the thermostat setting.